You can call me Cy of Super Smash Cache. I’m a bisexual, switchy femme in a long-distance relationship. I am the Jill of All Trades, master of none: majored in biology, minored in art, modeling by day, performing by night, and side-hustling on this blog in between. My endless interests make my ADHD a blessing and a curse, going through phases of obsession.
Sex-positivity isn’t just an obsession, though; it’s a key part of who I am. Even if I didn’t have this blog, I’d still be having conversations about toys and sexuality in real life.
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Why did I start blogging about sex toys?
When I was 19, I, like many women, thought my body was broken. I didn’t have orgasms with my partners, and the orgasms I had when masturbating were really wimpy. In my dorm, I’d hear my peers moaning through the thin walls and I’d think, “Why does it feel like everyone is having so much fun, except me?”
And yeah, it’s easy to say, “That’s just the way things are for women at first,” but that wasn’t going to stop me from doing everything in my power to totally own my ecstasy. I did a lot of comprehensive work, including meditation, intense kegeling, and of course, exploration with sex toys. In my humble opinion, it’s total bullshit to succumb to a culture that’s indifferent about female pleasure.
What kind of toys do I like?
I’m faint of vagina in most departments, but I love length. I love cervical orgasms, stimulation in my posterior fornix, and being bottomed out. How much length I take depends on the girth, firmness, and shape of the toy, but I most often reach for thrustable toys of 7″ or longer.
For practical purposes, I will use “cervical stimulation” as an umbrella term for the cervix, the anterior fornix (the dip just in front of the cervix), and the posterior fornix (just behind the cervix) in general.
I’m fairly sensitive and pretty much never stimulate my clitoris directly; I apply pressure through my hood without lube. With clit vibes, even though orgasms are easy, few will have Goldilocks’ “just right” in vibration pitch and intensity to give me the kind of orgasms I want: quick, intense, back-to-back, with little to no refractory period.
Vibrations too powerful give me short, fleeting orgasms. Vibrations too fast and buzzy have that same problem AND feel pinchy. The
Hitachi Magic Wand numbs me out. Slow and shallow vibrations give me a decent plateau but not very intense.
Fast, buzzy vibrations are more tolerable if the tip of the vibrator is pointy. Internally, I really enjoy pulsing patterns on my G-spot. But the tl;dr is that I like slow, deep vibrations on my clitoris, especially if the surface is broad.
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